…jealousy, speaking up, or setting boundaries? (If so, read on!)
Hey friend,
I have two cool things to share with you today!
The first is that today at 1pm ET, I’ll be hosting a live community Zoom call, on the topic of jealousy, and (obsessively) comparing yourself to others!
These monthly Patreon community calls have been sooo fun and some amazing conversations have come out of them, so I would love to see you there just in general, but also… I know this month’s topic will resonate with a lot of folks.
Plus the call only costs $5, so it’s hands down the most affordable way to connect and work with me!
All you have to do to get the Zoom link (and/or to watch the call recording after the fact, if you can’t make it live) is:
I can’t wait to hear everyone’s thoughts, questions, and stories around obsessive jealousy, habitually comparing yourself/your body to others, or developing those awkward and embarrassing fixations on certain people you view as particularly attractive or threatening. (And yes, these are all normal, you’re not weird I promise!) Hopefully by the end of the call, you’ll have even gained some insights and tools for understanding and navigating these situations with confidence and self-compassion, instead of just panicking and falling down the rabbit hole. ;-)
2. The second thing I’m excited to share today is my brand new course material on Building
the Skills of Self-Advocacy!
Delivered via an 80-minute webinar and set of accompanying worksheets (chock full of tools, tips, and practices), this material is the fifth module of my ongoing Patreon course Fuck the Patriarchy– but it also functions as a stand-alone webinar, available to purchase for $25.
This course material is for you if you identify as conflict-avoidant or a people-pleaser, you’re constantly trying to manage or control other people, or you often catch yourself wishing you would have spoken up, instead of staying silent to protect someone else’s feelings, ego, or comfort.
In this webinar, you will learn how to…
Set healthy boundaries, and then protect and enforce those boundaries in real time.
Clearly, confidently, honestly, and directly communicate your feelings, needs, opinions, desires, and boundaries to others.
Speak up (or call people out) when they say/do something rude, inappropriate, problematic, or disrespectful.
Stop being afraid of conflict, and stop letting your fear of disappointing people, making someone angry, or “being a burden” run your life.
Hold other people accountable for their own feelings, needs, desires, boundaries, comfort (so that you can stop trying to mind-read, guess, and anticipate), as well as for their own behavior (so that you can stop trying to manage, manipulate, or make yourself so “perfect” that they love you, or treat you with respect).
Feel more confident correcting or disagreeing with people, asking for help, standing up for yourself, and receiving compliments and attention.
Stop apologizing, minimizing, downplaying, deflecting, and discrediting yourself, so that you can calmly and confidently stand in your power.
If this sounds like something you would benefit from, there are two ways to access the material for email subscribers ONLY*:
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This is a great option if you want to take advantage of both the course material and today’s community Zoom call, since they’re both included in the membership— plus you’ll be entered into the two giveaways I’ll be running soon, for a chance to win a copy of my book or a body neutrality T-shirt!
Don’t feel like futzing around with Patreon? No problem, just contact me and I’ll send you a one-off invoice for $25, and then email you the webinar and worksheets directly!
That’s it for today– I’m so excited to share these with you, and very much hoping to see you in a few hours!
Big hug,
Jessi
*This offer is for email subscribers only. Want to subscribe? It's free!
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